Comments on: Grappling… http://brownsugarenterprises2.blogsome.com/2006/07/12/32/ Just another WordPress weblog Fri, 20 Nov 2009 12:31:54 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=1.5.1-alpha by: Fave http://brownsugarenterprises2.blogsome.com/2006/07/12/32/#comment-326 Tue, 25 Jul 2006 09:55:11 +0100 http://brownsugarenterprises2.blogsome.com/2006/07/12/32/#comment-326 Nothing compares to peace of mind and that is solely our responsibility to secure in our lives. There's nothing wrong with helping people, because that's what we're here to do, but boundaries often need to be set. I think it's time for a sincere, loving heart-to-heart conversation with all parties involved. Dog feces is unacceptable...lol Nothing compares to peace of mind and that is solely our responsibility to secure in our lives. There’s nothing wrong with helping people, because that’s what we’re here to do, but boundaries often need to be set. I think it’s time for a sincere, loving heart-to-heart conversation with all parties involved.

Dog feces is unacceptable…lol

]]> by: Keish http://brownsugarenterprises2.blogsome.com/2006/07/12/32/#comment-325 Sun, 16 Jul 2006 13:59:25 +0100 http://brownsugarenterprises2.blogsome.com/2006/07/12/32/#comment-325 I don't think looking out for yourself, and doing things to keep your peace of mind is selfish by definition. If you don't look out for yourself, people will drain the LIFE out of you. I don’t think looking out for yourself, and doing things to keep your peace of mind is selfish by definition. If you don’t look out for yourself, people will drain the LIFE out of you.

]]> by: Honest http://brownsugarenterprises2.blogsome.com/2006/07/12/32/#comment-324 Thu, 13 Jul 2006 21:26:33 +0100 http://brownsugarenterprises2.blogsome.com/2006/07/12/32/#comment-324 Sometimes it's hard saying no and but sometimes you gotta do it for your own sanity. I feel guilty when I say it but after I've analyzed the situation I never regret my decision. Sometimes it’s hard saying no and but sometimes you gotta do it for your own sanity. I feel guilty when I say it but after I’ve analyzed the situation I never regret my decision.

]]> by: Crystal http://brownsugarenterprises2.blogsome.com/2006/07/12/32/#comment-323 Thu, 13 Jul 2006 17:07:25 +0100 http://brownsugarenterprises2.blogsome.com/2006/07/12/32/#comment-323 I view doing someone a favor the same way I view giving a gift. Hell, a favor is a gift. I don't like begrudgingly giving gifts and so -- when my insides are saying no -- I try to pass on offering my services. But often enough, I offer assistance for something I don't have a problem with. But over time, the minor request turns into a BIG request -- and then I want out. I still haven't figured out how to get out of that once you've already volunteered yourself. I view doing someone a favor the same way I view giving a gift. Hell, a favor is a gift. I don’t like begrudgingly giving gifts and so — when my insides are saying no — I try to pass on offering my services. But often enough, I offer assistance for something I don’t have a problem with. But over time, the minor request turns into a BIG request — and then I want out.

I still haven’t figured out how to get out of that once you’ve already volunteered yourself.

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